DEFINING SUCCESS :
Success is not an easy task.It is not a gift,but it is hard to achieve and accomplish success.It is accomplished by having passion,devotion and tremendous amount of dedication and enthusiasm.Success is not merely being famous and wealthy.Real success is living a peaceful and happy life without any stress.To be successful is to work hard day and night to achieve your set goal, not everything in life is handed to you. As being richest man in the world does not mean that you are the happiest man in the world. But helping others to get inspired and lead them towards happiness makes you more successful. As according to me one is successful if he/she has made a difference in some body's poor life,your success counts from how many people you have helped in life,not on that how many you have defeated. It does not mean letting others down,but it means,giving them hands to get up.
THE FACTORS THAT AFFECT SUCCEED IN COMMUNITY :
- PASSION : In order to succeed passion is the force which keeps on pushing you towards your set goal. Passion keeps on motivating and does not allow to give up . It keeps you focused on your set goal and boosts confidence in you.It adds willingness to work on the set goal with consistency and hard work which finally leads to success. Passionate people are the successful ones.When one has a passion for a set goal than he does not do things by halves during his path o that goal . Indeed he goes all the way deep dawn and dig everything about his goal. For instance it is a well known fact that when an egg is broken from outside force it destroys life , but when it is broken by inside force it creates new life. so big things always happen from inside, and passion is one of the inside force which keeps on motivating one to achieve the set goal.on the contrary if you lack passion than you cant pursue your dreams and just give up fast.
- SUPPORT : In order to be successful in community the second factor that is essential is support. the support of family, community, friends, relatives,colleagues, teachers . Getting support for your set goal can help you touch heights without any difficulty but if one tries to accomplish one's desires on their own self than it becomes very difficult to achieve it. For instance as Chris Mclandess , he tried to do everything on his own and rejected the support of his family as well as friends who offered him help , due to which he ended up in finally losing . Support of family is one of the major things that leads success. One gets all the resources for their set goals without having to strive for each and everything, but if you lack family support like Sara Smolinsky in the novel 'Bread Givers' by Anzia Yezierska than it becomes too difficult to bring up your dreams to reality.
- SOCIAL RELATIONSHIPS : Having positive and healthy social networks also helps to succeed. Positive and hardworking individuals in the team and in one inner circle can keep one motivated and they play a role in others success too. Along with this, the manner in which you make people feel when you interact with others plays a vital role in success. One needs to be flexible in dealing with every situation . If you stand tough and stiff about your ideas and ignore others point of view it makes your negative picture in society and can hinder in your success. Your attitude goes for in others impression of you. People can recommend you in jobs faster and with joy if you have good connections with them , but if you are self centered than this can hindrance in your success.
- CULTURE : Culture plays crucial role in success. sometimes the societal and cultural norms do not allow people to move on their dreams . they set boundaries for them , which makes it difficult for them to cross that boundaries, but in case of Chris he had no such limitation of culture due to which it was easy for him to live his dream in the wild. on contrary if we compare Sara Smolinsky's life from the Novel ' Bread Givers ' by Angia Yezierska the culture definitely paves stones in her way to let her dream come true . In such cases it becomes very difficult to succeed unless one has passion for their set desire as Sara Smolinsky.
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